What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 01:37
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
—— which songs do certain kuorans remind you of?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
*** Questions About Me ***
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
What were some of the unforgettable incidents from your school life?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
🌿🌻Why are Meghan and Harry not treated like royalty in the United States anymore?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
How old are you? Male or Female?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
What is the cost of implementing synchronized traffic lights in a mid-sized city?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
How do I deal with autistic burnout/meltdown/shutdown when cooking?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
A Closer Look At Uranus’s Moons Reveals a Surprising Dark Side - Gizmodo
Do you think this brought you closer together?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Why is going on a date today so much different than it was when I was young?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
Why do some people have sex with dogs?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
Can a mother forget her child after she puts him or her up for adoption?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
Any that are a turn off?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
Any that are a turn off?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Nothing too Serious
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
29- How superstitious are you?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
What is your favorite position? Why?
If yes, what?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Please share Did you stop?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
*** Random Questions ***
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
Would you read them together?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
39~ What are your love languages?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Family Relation Age Play
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
If you win, what will you make them do?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
52~ What are your hobbies?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
The Ice Breaker Questions
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?